Your twin flame, your rock, the one you can’t live without – she recently opened up about something she’s been dying to try. As the words fell from her lips, you had a hard time hiding your surprise. “Boudoir for couples,” she said. “Wouldn’t it be amazing?”
Your eyes widened. You and her in front of a camera? While you were totally excited about the thought of her posing for a boudoir session, you certainly didn’t feel the same about yourself!
Guys, if you ever find yourself in this situation, I want you to consider something before you tell her no. As a boudoir photographer, it’s my calling in life to make my clients feel empowered, unafraid, and 100% worthy of living their best lives possible. However, most people don’t realize that this goes for women and men! You see, when you get in front of the camera, you realize you can be anyone you want to be. It’s a wonderful lesson that you can take with you outside my studio doors. In other words, if you can be strong and fearless in front of the camera, you can be that way every day. Not only does she deserve to feel that way – but you do too! Imagine what you can accomplish in life if you have that experience together.
If that isn’t reason enough to say yes to boudoir for couples, there’s more. Doing a photoshoot together allows you to see yourself through the eyes of your partner. It’s a unique gift to be able to do that – something that will help you understand each other on a deeper level as the days, months and years go by. It’s as if you get to fall in love all over again (goosebumps and all!) every time you look at the photos.
Of course there will be nervousness before the shoot. That is to be expected whether you’re a model or a guy who never liked having his photo taken. It is a big deal to have an intimate photoshoot with the person who knows you best. For instance, you may worry that you aren’t in shape enough or that you’ll feel awkward. But just remember that I’ll be there to respectfully pose and guide you through the entire thing. Whether you choose to dress up or down is up to you, and you’ll never have to do anything that you aren’t comfortable with. You really don’t need to worry about doing anything at all other than having a fun date with her!
Ready to say yes to boudoir for couples?
To me, boudoir for couples is one of the most beautiful ways to celebrate a relationship. I hope you’ll give it a try and find that out too. Do it for her and most importantly, do it for you! Contact me today if you’d like to learn more about booking a shoot or surprising her with one for a birthday, anniversary or just because!