May 25, 2018

Ready To Say Goodbye To Your Insecurities?

Ok Ladies, let’s be honest. How often do you feel insecure? Every day? Sometimes? No matter how often it is, know one thing. You’re not alone.

There isn’t a person on this planet who doesn’t have insecurities. Some people are just better at hiding or coping with them! Feeling insecure is actually very normal. And overcoming it involves a gradual process. Learning to love and accept yourself is only the first step.


Industry City boudoir photographer

Sexy boudoir model wearing white lingerie


The moment you start to feel insecure, just pause for a minute. Take a little time to analyze your thoughts and feelings. Realize that your mind has the tendency to exaggerate negative emotions. As a result, you may see the worst even when it’s not really the case. Once you know that certain things are only in your head, you’ll be able to chip away at these bad feelings!


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A boudoir shoot in Brooklyn NY


Realize that insecurity is just a state of mind. It can feel like an invisible cloud hanging over you all the time. But that’s also what makes it easy to overcome! The keyword here is ‘invisible’. It’s something that exists only in your mind. If you don’t allow your mind to consume negative self-talk, it won’t have any power over you.

Most importantly, stop seeking approval from others. Have you ever heard the saying, “Comparison is the thief of joy”? This is often the root of insecurity for most people. If you want to know how to overcome insecurity, you need to stop looking at others. Focus on yourself. Other people will always have something that you don’t have. But realize that you have something they don’t as well! Focus on practicing self-approval every day. It’ll take some time, but eventually you’ll realize that you don’t need anyone’s approval except your own!


A dramatic boudoir pose

A boudoir shoot in a NYC hotel room


When was the last time you did something for yourself? When you take care of yourself, you feel good. When you feel good, you have no time to be insecure!

One of the most common causes of insecurity stems from negative body image. Doing a boudoir shoot is one of the best ways to reverse that feeling and gain self confidence. A boudoir shoot is a good gift to yourself because it reinforces a positive self-image. You owe it to yourself! It’s time to find that beautiful woman inside you that got lost somehow. You don’t have to look perfect in order to pose in front of the camera with confidence. Seeing yourself through beautiful imagery will give you tremendous power. It’s such a great reminder that you can love yourself just how you are!


A close up boudoir photo

A woman posing on a couch for a boudoir shoot


Get Rid Of Your Insecurities With Boudoir!

Learning how to overcome insecure feelings doesn’t happen overnight. But it will happen! Contact me today, and let’s talk about how a boudoir session can help change your life. With a little time and self-acceptance, you’ll be on your way to an even more incredible you!