April 20, 2018

The Secret To Achieving Your Goals

I have one word for you to think about today: Goals. As women, we all have goals no matter who we are or where we come from. Goals can be as small as getting to the gym this week, and as big as starting our own businesses. Whether we’re dreaming of looking sexy or being our own bosses, goals motivate us to become more amazing versions of ourselves. That’s the reason I love them so much!


New York boudoir photographer

A sexy model at a boudoir shoot

A woman posing for wedding boudoir photos in NYC


But while we all have good intentions to make incredible things happen in our lives, many of us lack action plans. We don’t stop to consider how we’re going to get from Point A to Point B. This lack of direction often causes us to give up on our goals all together. In the end, maybe you felt too tired and never made it to the gym. And perhaps you got too scared to start your own business. After all, your current job gives you a sense of security…  even though it makes you miserable. Let’s face it: Not achieving our goals is like watching our dreams crumble. So how can we successfully get what we want?

The answer, Ladies, is by taking risks! It’s figuring out how to take action and going all in, even if it’s terrifying. The truth is that with risks, there’s no guarantees. You may indeed fail. But if you never try, you’re never going to know what you could have achieved. That to me is much worse than failure.


An up close boudoir photo

A woman posing on a bed for a boudoir shoot

A boudoir photo session in New York City


I bring all of this up, because so many times I hear women tell me how they wish they could do a boudoir shoot. They dream of looking fabulous and feeling so empowered — even if just for the day. But in the end, they put it off because they’re too nervous or don’t feel confident enough.  I’m very happy to say that one of my most recent, lovely clients decided to take the risk, even though it seemed really scary at first. Here is what she has to say about her boudoir experience:

“I never had the experience of doing a photoshoot before. I had a long engagement, and was having some interest in doing a boudoir session because I’ve heard it’s a nice gift to give your fiance. To be honest, I was extremely hesitant, and it’s normally not like me to dress in sexy clothing or feel sexy!

I was nervous about the whole thing, but I just went for it when I found out my cousin experienced it. I reached out to Evgenia because she was recommended to me and I saw her photos on Instagram. I loved her work.

She immediately got back to me with such a positive attitude. She made everything easy – from communicating, planning out the session, instructing me exactly what to expect and do. The day of the session was so much fun. The moment Evgenia came down the elevator to get me from the lobby I actually felt at ease. She was easy going and didn’t make anything uncomfortable. My hair and makeup was done on site and it was perfect. I loved my makeup so much. During the shoot I felt so confident and she guided me through every moment – but also there was a lot of room for creativity and different ideas. I had the best experience and I am so happy I did it. I really was impressed by my photos and final album.

I did do this for a special occasion (my wedding). However, I would do it again for no reason at all. I’d do it just for myself to feel empowered, confident, beautiful, and to be creative. I highly recommend Evgenia! Thank you for an experience I won’t ever forget! “


A sexy woman posing in lingerie

A woman posing for a boudoir shoot in New York City

Posing on a couch for a sexy photoshoot


Is a boudoir shoot one of your goals?

If so, let me help you get from Point A to Point B. Contact me today, and together we will plan to make your dream come true. I’m telling you… once you achieve this goal, the sky is the limit! There will be no stopping you.